Johnson (2004) identified some
characteristics of low self esteem or shy out students:
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Fearful of exploring his/her real life
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Believes that others are responsible for how he/she feels
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Fearful of taking responsibility for his/her own emotions and actions
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Feels and acts like a victim
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Judgmental of self and others
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Puts self down , shameful ,blaming, self critical ,condemning
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Negative attitude
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Triangulates by talking badly about one person to another
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Rationalizes
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Jealous/envious
of others, has trouble being genuinely happy for the success of others
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Perfectionist
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Dependencies/addiction , compulsive, self defeating thinking and
behavior
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13.Does not like the work one does
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Focuses on what doesn’t get done instead of what does
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Leaves tasks and relationship unfinished and walks away without
resolving issues
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Judges self worth by comparing to others , feel inferior
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Does not accept or give compliments
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Is not comfortable with self , hard to be alone with self
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Avoids new endeavors ,fears mistakes or failures
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Irrational response ruled by emotions
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Lack of purpose in life
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Lack of defined goals
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Feels adequate to handle new situations , easily unstressed
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Feel resentful when doesn’t win
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Vulnerable to opinions , comments and attitude of others
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Continues to blame
past experience (or
family) in stead
of dealing with
current self (the
past is the explanation , not an excuse).
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